Higher Studies and Selection of Subject
Higher study is another stair for the students to go forward towards his/her goal. Everyone finds his/her expert areas and select or choose a subject for higher studies. In this stage the selection of the subject plays very important role in building the future of a student. Deepak has recently completed his diploma in textile engineering. Now he is going to enroll himself in a University. But he is confused with the selection of the subject he is going to choose for his higher studies. His father wanted him to complete B. Sc. in textile engineering, but Deepak doesn't think in the same way as his father thinks.
Recently Deepak has been working with a group of people on hand painting. Besides, he is a very talented person and he wishes to do something by himself, where he can employ plenty of people and can make a place to earn their living. In a nutshell he wants to be an entrepreneur.
Now in this stage what Deepak should do? Should he follow his father’s instructions? Or should he follow his dream? Actually, Deepak should follow the instructions of his father, but he also should not give up on his dream. Maybe you are thinking that how could it be possible.
Before I answer your question, I must share something more with you. Whatever you do in your life, you will not be able to do that perfectly if you do not do it from your heart. Now, if Deepak gets himself enrolled for a B. Sc. in Textile engineering, maybe he will pass the degree, but he will never be a good engineer. Because, we will never be able to do his work in another’s company under some other people where he may not get the chance to apply his excellence, what he can do in his own business. So, in this stage, Deepak should explain all these things to his father very clearly, so that his father can clearly understand what he wants to explain. If he understands what Deepak wants to explain, he will also agree with him as well.
Thing is, every person holds a dream of his/her higher studies and career. A person can become an expert in that particular area that he/she prefers and loves most. In this situation, if s/he is asked to do something else, it will be a burden for him/her. Our parents also should be aware of it. Often it is seen that they impose their dreams on their children. This caused the damage of a dream and a desire as well. Before they impose any decision upon their children, they should know if their children want what the parents want.
In the same way, the students also should be aware of it. They should not choose a subject which they do not like. But of course, there should be a valid reason. Most importantly, they should not have any misunderstanding with their parents. Rather, they should explain it to their parents so that their parents can think in the same way as they think.